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How Does God View Human Failings?

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Google Image One of the most embarrassing things that has happened to me occurred years ago when I took my father to his doctor’s office. He was probably in his early nineties, had hearing problems and was beginning to show signs that he wasn’t entirely in tune with his surroundings. A grossly overweight young woman entered the waiting room. Dad saw her and commented in a voice that no one there could miss: “Would you look at that!” I wanted to crawl under the table next to me. I felt terrible, but there was nothing I could do to remedy the situation. I couldn’t say, “Sorry” to the young woman. That would have embarrassed her even more. There was nothing I could say to my dad. He was simply saying what he was thinking, and losing one’s inhibitions seems to come easy with age. He was otherwise a wonderful father and human being. Know It's Wrong Fact is, I also find myself often judging people because of their looks. I know it’s wrong. I believe it dates from a time in my life ...

What We Really Want, and Need

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Google Image My wife, Amparo, and I were at a restaurant recently when a family that included a teenaged girl entered. She and family members were walking to their table, accompanied by the maître de, when I noticed that the girl was wearing headphones - not the small ones that fit in the ear but large ones that included a flashing light to let you know that they were in use. Was she sending a message? I wondered. And was the message that not only did she not want to engage with family members, but wanted them – and anyone else who might try to speak to her - to know as much? If I interpreted the situation correctly, I have to acknowledge that it’s not only teens who are “plugged in” to their cell phones or other electronic devices when they could be engaging with real, live people. We’ve all experienced it among friends, family and strangers. We seem to be in a pandemic of distraction from “real life.” Avoiding the Deeper Issues “Where our culture is particularly dangerous, I feel...

Compassion as Weakness

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Google Image While in Colombia a week or so ago, I had an interesting conversation with a taxi driver. He was sympathizing with America’s “immigration problem,” comparing it to the onslaught of Venezuelans who have entered his country in recent years. A word of explanation. As of September of last year, nearly 3 million Venezuelans have settled in Colombia, a country with a population of about 53 million where nearly 14 percent of the population - approximately 6.9 million people - are living on less than $2.15 a day. T he United Nations Refugee Agency attributes the flight from Venezuela (An estimated 25 percent of the population have migrated.) to “rampant violence, inflation, gang warfare, soaring crime rates, and shortages of food, medicine and essential services ….” For the Colombian taxi driver, these aren’t just statistics. The presence of so many poor Venezuelans in Colombia is personal. He grew up poor and continues to be poor, he said, and sees the Venezuelans as intruder...

Knowing Right from Wrong

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Google Image One of my all-time, favorite movies was produced in 1989 and was entitled, “Do the Right Thing.” P roduced, written and directed by Spike Lee , “the story explores a Brooklyn   neighborhood's simmering racial tension  between its African American   residents and the Italian American  owners of a pizzeria…,” according to Wikipedia. As the name implies, it deals with a moral dilemma. So, how do we know how to “do the right thing?” Francis Collins, the retired director of the National Institutes of Health and former director of the Human Genome Project - of whom I’ve written often - grew up as a “practical atheist.” Irrelevant to Him He wasn’t so much a denier of God’s existence. It just didn’t occur to him in all his studies to become a medical doctor, then a renowned genetic scientist, to ask the God question. It was irrelevant to him, as it seems to many people. The awakening to this question extended over several years and began when as a ...