“Thoughts and Prayers”
Google Image On social media, and in person, many people seem to dislike the phrase, “You’re in our thoughts and prayers,” used when someone discloses a tragedy such as a death in the family. I don’t think all who object to this phrase are against thoughts and prayers as such. They are against clichés that may not have a lot of thought behind them – not insincere, exactly, but maybe lacking in genuineness. When I was in graduate school studying journalism, professors emphasized the importance of avoiding clichés in writing, for the reason mentioned above, but also because writing that uses a lot of clichés is uninteresting. Rote Prayers Religious people use a lot of “clichés” when they pray, and that’s especially true of people of my own faith. Catholicism has a lot of rote prayers, ones we recite over and over, starting with the sign of the cross and the words that go with it. We often make the sign of the cross sloppily and recite the words, “In the name of the Father and of ...