The God Who Is “Distant and Never Quite Pleased”
On a recent show, TV host Stephen Colbert interviewed comedian Jim Gaffigan. They were talking about parenting and their faith – something that is seldom done on national network television – and Colbert commented on Gaffigan’s description of his parenting of five children. “A father’s job,” said Colbert, “is to be distant, authoritative and never quite pleased. That way, the children can eventually understand God.” He meant it as a joke, but most jokes reflect reality, and I believe this joke pretty well reflects how many people feel about God: If God exists, many people suspect, he/she is distant, judgmental and above all, impossible to understand. Maybe that view results from so many contradictory signals about God. Is he/she loving, as is portrayed sometimes in the Christian Bible and the lives of many saints, or vindictive and exacting, as is often portrayed in the Jewish Bible? Counted the Hairs? Is he/she so intimate with us that he/she has “counted the hairs o...