Will Everything Really Be OK?
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I recently happened across clips of the 1997 movie “Life is
Beautiful” on YouTube and was reminded that the movie itself is beautiful, and
meaningful.
The winner of three academy awards, it tells the story of Guido Orefice, a Jewish Italian bookshop owner, who in 1944 - when northern Italy was occupied by the Nazis - was arrested with other family members and taken to a concentration camp.
In the camp, Guido tries to hide the horror of their
situation from his five-year-old son, Giosue. He tells Giosue that the camp is
a complicated game in which “the players” must perform certain tasks, each of
which will earn them points. Whoever gets a thousand points first wins a tank. If
he cries, complains or says he’s hungry, he will lose points, while quiet boys
who hide from the camp guards earn extra points.
The Final Task
Guido continues with this ruse until the camp begins to shut
down as the Allied forces approach. He tells Giosue
to stay in a sweat-box until everybody has left. This is the final task in the
competition to win the tank.
Guido is caught by a German soldier who leads him to his
execution. En route, he passes Giosue in the box and winks, still playing the
game. The next day, Giosue leaves the sweat-box as a U.S. Sherman tank arrives
to help liberate the camp. Giosue is happy, thinking he won the game and the
tank, which an American soldier allows him to ride. Reuniting with his mother
and still unaware of his father’s death, he excitedly tells his her about how
he had won a tank, just as his father had promised.
The movie begs the question – among many posed by the
unprecedented terror of Nazi concentration camps – of how anyone could explain such
horror to a child. Indeed, it would be hard enough to explain it to oneself. Seeing
the movie clips also brought to my mind the question of how to prepare children
for the inevitable setbacks, crises and disappointments life brings to most of
us.
When those things happen, we often try to comfort children, as
well as other adults, with the phrase, “Everything will be OK.” It’s often the
only thing we can think to say. But will everything always be OK? We know from
experience that it often won’t be.Google Image
Guido implicitly says that to five-year-old Giosue when he knew
it wouldn’t be OK. Guido’s novel approach temporarily, at least, provided a bit
of assurance to his son, but in the long run, it was a subterfuge based on a
lie.
It occurs to me that it would be better to prepare children to
deal with setbacks, crises and disappointments rather than try to shield them
from them. In most cases, the shields, like Guido’s scheme, aren’t reliable.
Fact is, we know there is no guarantee that anything will ultimately be OK and
that death, and the adversity that normally leads up to it, awaits each of us.
Assurance
The only way we can say that “everything will be OK,” in my
opinion, is through faith, which at its best provides assurance that God is
with us through thick and thin and that a better life ultimately awaits us.
Like much of God’s revelation, belief in an afterlife evolved in the Hebrew Bible. According to biblical scholars it was part of Jewish belief only in the last 600 years or so before Jesus. But it is pervasive in the Christian Bible.
“For
God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him
should not perish but have eternal life,” says the Gospel of John.
So
no, everything will not be OK in this life, but believers see another, better
one ahead. In the meantime, the focus should be on compassion, kindness and
generosity and ways we can make this life better for everyone.
I think and believe that in the long run everything will be O.K. but in the here and now everything won't necessarily be O.K. Like, everything for Jesus in his life here wasn't O.K. and his Father didn't swoop down and save him from anything. He just let him suffer. I think it could be that way for us in the short run in this world.I think sometimes we do bring evil on ourselves and don't have to do that. But other times we are just "done unto" and just have to suffer through it as honorably and respectfully as we are able to muster.
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Great discussion, Tom! It strikes me how important it is to seek first the a union with God before all else. Thanks for your blog and insights!
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