Not Always Knowing Where We’re Going
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For me, it is close to the kind of love prescribed for all
of us in Jewish and Christian traditions, the kind of love I believe is needed
for people searching for God.
This love isn’t extraordinary, however, because it’s the
love that normally exists between parents and children. Indeed, this kind of
love is evident among many species of animals. What is extraordinary is this
kind of love for people other than family members.
So is this going to be one of those syrupy pieces about
love, the kind that turns many people off? I hope not. I acknowledge that for
many of us, the two “greatest commandments” of the Jewish and Christian Bibles -
love of God and neighbor - are enigmas. How can you really love God, whom you
can’t see or feel or touch, whom theologians and religious people acknowledge
is unknowable? And am I really expected to love everybody?
Far From Syrupy
Questions that many of us have asked. But, yes, the
prescription for love in the Jewish Bible and repeated by Jesus in the
Christian Bible would apply this familial love to God and to everybody. When
you consider the difficulty of following this formula – to love God and
neighbor - you realize it’s far from the syrupy descriptions of love in romance
novels, popular songs or especially, in religious books and videos. And you
understand why so few are willing to embrace it.
Those of us struggling to believe may tend to overemphasize
the value of intellectual faith and underestimate the value of love. Tomas
Halik, the Czech theologian and philosopher, writes that “God doesn’t
particularly care whether we believe in him or not. …Or more precisely, he
doesn’t care about our faith in the sense that the term is often used, namely
that to believe in God is to be convinced of God’s existence.”
Tomas Halik
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What really matters to God, writes Halik, is “whether we
love him,” whether we have a faith “that is fundamentally associated with
love.”
“Faith without love is hollow,” Halik writes; “indeed, it is
often no more than a projection of our wishes and fears, and in that respect
many atheist critics of religion are right.”
All this is in Halik’s new book, “I Want You to Be,”
subtitled “On the God of Love.” He acknowledges that the term “love of God”
sounds “just as absurd to many of those around us as the words “love of one’s
enemy.”
He defines love as “self-transcendence,” and asks, “What is
more radical than to abandon self-absorption – which is especially pronounced
nowadays – in favor of an ‘absolute mystery (i.e., God)?”
This kind of love, he maintains, supersedes mere belief.
“Committed Christians” may criticize others who have doubt,
who struggle with unbelief, as if the essence of faith were simply a matter of believing.
But Halik points out that faith in the original biblical sense is “not a matter
of adopting specific opinions and ‘certainties’ but the courage to enter the
domain of mystery.”
The story of Abraham, the “father of faith” of Christians
and Jews, is a good example. “He set out, not knowing where he was going.” For
some who haven’t been able to commit to faith, this may seem absurd. But it’s
often the case in human love as well. Aren’t most marriages of that kind? When
we set out, we don’t really know where we’re going.
A Risky Endeavor
Says Halik of faith associated with love: “It is a risky
endeavor whose outcome is never certain, a path on which we travel without
knowing for sure where it will lead.”
This kind of love, and this kind of faith, rings true to many
of us who at some moments are convinced of our faith and other moments not so
sure. But we have this in common with many unbelievers, who undoubtedly aren’t
always so sure of their unbelief. In one sense, we’re all believers and
unbelievers at the same time.
The Christian and Jewish idea of love, and therefore of
faith, challenges us to become more than we are, continuing the search for God,
not always knowing where we are going.
Andrew Lenoir, a journalist and historian, writing in a
recent issue of America Magazine about the famous mystic, Thomas Merton, says Merton
“calls on us to sacrifice the world we have constructed for ourselves: our
comfort zone, our complacency, our self-righteousness and our preferred facts.
It might not be easy, but it is our small cross to bear if we would ask
ourselves new questions and hear the voice of God in others here and now.”
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