No Santa, No God?
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Kathleen Kalt, who is 68 and lives in Florida, was raised a
Catholic. She says she lost her faith in the first grade when she discovered
there is no Santa Claus. She had discovered a bike in her family’s storage room
that she knew was a Christmas gift, not a gift from Santa.
“My brain just went: tooth fairy, Easter bunny, God. It took
less than a minute, a very traumatic minute. I realized I was on my own at 6
years old,” she told Jessica Grose, who writes a New York Times newsletter.
Kalt said she doesn’t believe in God, but observes Buddhist rituals, adding
that she “will often say the rosary as a meditation because it’s second nature
to me.”
Kalt was among people Grose interviewed for a series of
stories about “nones,” the term for those who have answered “none” on
questionnaires about religious affiliation. That group has grown substantially
in the last few years, worrying religious leaders and apparently cheering
people who believe that religion is nonsense.
The Cultural Landscape
“Sometimes,” Grose wrote, “their beliefs … evolved because of
whatever was flowing through the cultural landscape of their day.” She found
that three trends emerged among the “nones” she interviewed.
“Several had switched religious affiliation
more than once; I’ll call them seekers. Others had an abrupt break from church
in their youth, after which they became atheists or agnostics; I’ll call them
skeptics. And there were others who drifted away from religion fairly late in
life; I’ll call them slow faders, because their religious evolutions took time.
Personally, I think there are many more
categories, such as those who become doubters in college when unable to
reconcile science with religion; those who become disenchanted with religious
leaders because of what happens at their church or synagogue; those who were
scandalized by clergy abuse of kids and teens, especially in my own Catholic
church; and those who simply see religion as irrelevant.Google Image
Even though I write these blogs from the viewpoint of a believer, I can relate to all those who find it difficult, or impossible, to believe. I’ve been there. However, I have a few observations that might help people who are sincerely searching for God.
First, the search requires some work. With due respect to Kathleen Kalt, you shouldn’t make a decision as formidable as giving up your faith in “less than a minute” or at the age of six. You need study and prayer. And being a skeptic is no obstacle. God invented the brain and expects us to use it.
Feelings Unreliable
Second, you have to acknowledge that in the search for God (and in most other aspects of life), feelings are unreliable. Emotions are certainly part of the religious experience, but faith, despite what skeptics say, is rational and requires thought. And to be true to yourself, you can’t make the choice for or against religion based on contemporary trends.
Third, religion is not principally a matter of rituals or doctrines but of a relationship with God and others. And of all human endeavors, religion is best equipped to help people in their search for God.
People who have studied and prayed with open minds and hearts know that the existence of Santa or the Easter Bunny has nothing to do with the existence of God, whose presence has been experienced by billions of witnesses over thousands of years.
One of your best thank you Tom
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